ESA
6 years ago I was a newly married cancer survivor who still had two legs. I was a dog Mom to Jack Daniels, a sweet, snaggletoothed Havanese dog. He was my first pet and we learned so much together through my college years and beyond. He wasn't overly affectionate but he was loyal. He spent many nights lying beside me while I cried. He was with me through breakups, moves, and cancer. For years I would worry about the day when he would be gone. I had become so emotionally connected with him and I was not sure how I could bear the loss of him. We thought that maybe getting a second pet would be good for both of us. Having a friend around would surely bring him some comfort in his older age. At least this is what I told myself the day I brought Beau Valentine home...
We arrived back at our apartment with a little white and caramel colored ball of fluff wrapped in a blanket. As soon as I set him on the ground, Beau found Jack lying under the coffee table and curled up next to him. Jack wasn't exactly impressed with the new kid on the block. But soon enough, Beau won all of us over and cuddle sessions were frequent. We took vacations to the beach with them and road trips to see family.
When Jack went up to doggie heaven ( Because all dogs go to heaven) I gave thanks for all the years I was lucky enough to have with him. All the bad days he made better and all the ways he taught me to be responsible and caring. Today Beau walks slowly behind me, so as not to trip me when I am on my crutches and he is always by my side at home. He can spot me in a crowd and snorts like a baby pig when he has something to say. He requires tons of affection and I am happy to oblige. I have seen a hospital patient's spirit light up as their dog comes to visit and I have been that patient. Therapy comes in so many forms and I firmly believe in the power of Emotional Support Animals. Some of us need the slightly unconventional to find our balance. During times of crisis, we don't want to feel alone. I find so endless value in company that makes no judgments, stays by your side no matter what, and wants nothing but a biscuit and some cuddles in return.
What's my favorite prescription? An incredible husband and family, my faith, a glass half full perspective, and my dog. Like it or not, I will continue to spam you all with way too many photos of my dog until the end of time.
